For me, Facebook adds very limited value. I have to have a profile, for various reasons, but I almost never visit the site. I don't see the advantage over, say email. Here's how Facebook works, or doesn't, for me:
- Someone posts a 'funny' or otherwise interesting video on my FunWall
- Facebook sends me an email telling me someone has just posted on my FunWall
- I go to Facebook and log in
- I get to see what was posted on the FunWall
- Someone sends me an email with a link to a 'funny' or otherwise interesting video on YouTube or any of the other video hosting sites
- I click the link and view the video
We have become very individualistic, and many of us don't even realise what we've lost. We're now "consumers" rather than citizens. One is simply a tiny and replaceable cog in a giant machine of endless, wasteful, and ultimately unsatisfying consumption. (No wonder everyone in our society seems addicted to something.) The other is an integral and vital part of the very meaningful communities of our cities, provinces, countries, and even world. Which would you rather be?
Facebook is in no danger of disappearing - yet. And there are many people who are afraid of joining communities now, because one has to be accepted into a community, and one has to get to know people and let them know you. We have to accept each other, and that's something we really are forgetting how to do in a hurry.
However, I hope and expect that people will return to real communities. There are larger social forces pushing us in that direction, and we're hard-wired that way, so I see it as only a matter of time. As that happens, Facebook will be in trouble. And, if someone wants to send me a "funny" or interesting video, they can just send me an email.